As with any move to a new house, settling in
is a slow process that take time and
patience. We've been busy trying to
tackle the mountains of boxes, stacks of
items to be organized, separated and put
away. It goes on and on.
One major milestone was refurnishing the
living room - we had sold most all of
our combined funky furnishings at a yard
sale and were left with an old couch and one
sort of pathetic coffee table.
A new sofa bed, two chairs, end tables,
coffee table, hutch, new blinds - and
two new dresser drawers in the bedroom -
and things are looking much nicer. Our
Home is beginning to emerge!
Ok, the office needs some attention, but it
will be transformed in time.
The furniture in place, some decorations and
photos adorned - we're feeling a
sense of releif and were able to take a
breath, relax and enjoy our new space.
August was the month of moving - so many
deadlines and weekends committed to making
it all happen.
Thoughts on Your Legacy
Sometimes a mood just overtakes without
warning - invisible - unseen - it's there -
where it wasn't just a moment before. This
happened to me recently.
It sort of clouded me in a moment of
pensiveness - as I read news articles about
two people who have recently passed away:
Henry Gibson (of the 60's show Laugh-In) and
Mary Travers (of the folk trio Peter, Paul
and Mary). Their biographies and life's
stories are somewhat inspiring and
impressive - but not epic in any way. So why
my dark shadow?
I sometimes find myself
thinking about life after I'm gone. What
will my legacy be? How will people remember
me? What great accomplishments will be
mentioned in my obituary? And so, in my
selfish fear I'm temporarily convinced that
I will not have done enough, been brave
enough or been ambitious enough to deserve
tribute and celebration at my names post
humus mention.... But the question needs to
be asked: Are your life's accomplishments
achieved - simply so you can be raised on an
ivory pedestal and revered after you're
gone?
I just don't see it that way so I guess (for
me) the answer is no. And thankfully
as my mood lifts, I realize that your life's
work is base in an effort to share
your love with family & friends, make your
corner of the world a cleaner, greener,
happier, better place and take the time to
make good memories along the way. I think
that if you live this way, the revelry and
commemoration will follow. And through the
eyes of those who survive you, will come
accomplishments and legacy that had escaped
you while you were busy doing life's work.
I guess the only other thing to mention is
something that many of us learn a little
late in life:
Don't Wait: Make
Your Own Happiness Now
The actions you put forth in this effort
will be different for everyone, but steadily
moving in this direction will make your
life's work more harmonious with being a
happy, optimistic person. Not a bad way to
live - or be remembered for that matter.
A Foggy Valley
Just thought I'd share this nice view I had
while on a morning ride. A nice change
from the heat and smoke only weeks ago.